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Another day, another virus and once again I find myself having to juggle entertaining a poorly child and making sure I have done enough work for my self-employed job to at least cover the bill for the childcare I am currently not using. It\u2019s a struggle that many work from home parents know all too well.<\/p>\n

You might have thought before you had children that the opportunity to work from home as a parent would be the ideal situation. You would get to earn money and save money on childcare. Perhaps you thought it would be easy, since babies just sleep all the time and older children can entertain themselves through play. Unfortunately, it\u2019s not that simple, and I certainly would not have been able to do my job whilst looking after my children full time. My first child never slept and my second child is only happy when she\u2019s attached to some part of my body. It\u2019s surprisingly difficult to work on a laptop when a four year old is trying to sit on your lap at the same time.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I spend around half my earnings on childcare and it\u2019s worth every penny. However, thanks to the ability of children to spread germs at a rapid rate, at least once a month I will need to spend one of my allocated work days tending to a sick child. That being said, it\u2019s not entirely impossible to work from home without childcare. But you do need to engage a little forward planning and be prepared with plenty of distraction techniques.<\/p>\n

Be Realistic<\/h2>\n

\"Young<\/p>\n

I have seen several posts online from expectant mothers asking if it would be possible for them to return to a full time work from home job just three months after giving birth. Such a scenario might be possible if you lucked out with an easy baby but you have to be prepared for the possibility that you might also have a high needs baby who wants to cling to you constantly and will cry for hours.<\/p>\n

If you are planning on working from home with children then you have to be realistic about what is achievable. You will almost certainly be unable to get through the same volume of work that you did before you had kids or whilst your children were in childcare. Children are unpredictable. One day your three month old baby will sleep quite happily for two hours during the day, the next day a new tooth starts coming through and you\u2019re faced with weeks of disturbed sleep and tears.<\/p>\n

One day your 7 year old might be perfectly happy playing Roblox for two hours while you catch up on email. The next day he might suddenly develop an interest in any board game that involves you playing with him and will pester constantly for your attention. If you are self-employed you may have to accept a drop in income and if you work for a company you may need to negotiate a reduced workload.<\/p>\n

Accepting A Sudden Change Of Plans<\/h2>\n

\"Woman<\/p>\n

One thing that I have consistently struggled with is the sudden adjustments to plans that are regularly needed when it comes to being a work from home parent. I\u2019m a big planner, so I\u2019ll often think about my work day the night before and have a list of tasks that I plan on completing. All good, till one of the kids throws a curve ball and suddenly just ten minutes into my work day I\u2019m heading back out to school to pick up a child with suspected concussion after a fall in the playground.<\/p>\n

For parents who are working with children at home, sudden adjustments are part of the package deal. You might think that your baby will nap for the next 30 minutes giving you enough time to respond to some emails, and then teething pain kicks in and instead of getting on with work you are trying to soothe an upset child. It can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. As I write this, I\u2019m on the third week in a row where I have been unable to fully utilise my scheduled childcare days, thanks to a series of winter illnesses that have spread through the household. Accepting that I am not fully in control of my ability to complete my work is something that I have struggled with, but after a number of years I have finally learnt not to be disappointed. It\u2019s certainly something that takes practice, but eventually you will learn to work around it, and enjoy the extra time with your child in that moment.<\/p>\n

Prioritise Important Tasks<\/h2>\n

\"Mother<\/p>\n

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It sounds obvious, but prioritising important tasks is essential when it comes to working from home with children. You never know when you may have to stop working to attend to your children, so start each week with a list of tasks that need completing and start with the most urgent or important.<\/p>\n

If you have a deadline, then try to remove as many distractions as possible, including your phone, the television (unless you are using it to keep the kids quiet!) and resist the urge to do a quick tidy before you start work. You have to think of yourself as being in an office at a place of employment, rather than at home where it\u2019s tempting to stop work for five minutes to put another load in the washing machine.<\/p>\n

Plan Activities For Your Child<\/h2>\n

\"Mother<\/p>\n

My seven-year-old would happily play on his iPad all day if I let him, but that wasn\u2019t always the case and he used to need constant interaction. My four-year-old is a little more independent than the eldest was at the same age, but she will generally only occupy herself with a task for 20-30 minutes at a time \u2013 often less. So, when she is too contagious for nursery but well enough to be dancing around the house, I find it helpful to have a metaphorical toolbox of activities to keep her entertained. However, you do have to be prepared for the fact that each activity may only give you a limited amount of time.<\/p>\n

Simple Activities That Will Occupy Your Children<\/h3>\n

With young children in particular, you will probably find it helpful to have activities that can take place in the same room as you but won\u2019t result in lots of mess that you will need to carefully supervise. So, poster paints are out, but play-dough is in. Ask your child if they could try and make the longest play-dough sausage in the world, get them to practice cutting it with play scissors, or see if they can completely bury a small toy and then dig it out again.<\/p>\n

Something that works really well with my two children is getting them to create a new car mat. Most of us are familiar with the rug that has the road and buildings on that can be used with toy cars for role-play, but it\u2019s even more fun if the children can design their own. You can pick up a roll of wallpaper lining from Wilkos for around \u00a33. It\u2019s thicker than regular paper and is therefore ideal for drawing on when placed on the floor. You can un-roll a couple of lengths and stick them together with Sellotape to create one large sheet. Your child may want you to draw the initial outline of the roads to start with, but then they can have great fun adding houses and other buildings, along with people and the occasional dinosaur.<\/p>\n

You will probably have your own ideas about what keeps your child entertained, but other things that I have found to work well include:<\/p>\n